Book club early fall dinner

My book club came to visit!

To give you an idea of the importance of this group to me, we have been together for more than 20 years. In the early days, we celebrated each other’s pregnancies and reveled in our kids’ first days of kindergarten . Today, we’re celebrating graduations, weddings and grandchildren, and comforting each other at the loss of parents and long-time family dogs. We are all empty nesters as of 2020, and we are marveling at each other’s choices on how to spend this next phase of our lives. So you can imagine how excited I was to have them visit Wexford Lane for the first time.

The best book club in the world on the patio

We have 10 members (not all pictured here), so we each get the chance to host the group once a year. (Someone gets March-April and someone gets June-July to work around vacations and family events.) The host picks the book, sets the date and makes dinner. That frees everyone else up to read and enjoy for most of the year!

The first visit of this very special group of ladies to our new house occurred in September 2019. When I host, I like to take culinary cues from the book, but we read The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt, and there weren’t any fabulous meals in that book, so I was free to match the menu to the setting instead.

We started on the patio with a simple cheese board with crackers. For the main course, I served Summer Carbonara (full of roasted cherry tomatoes and burrata cheese) from Half-Baked Harvest. With a large salad, this recipe can feed a crowd. I served it with Half Baked Harvest’s Roasted Cauliflower Salad with Creamy Honey Mustard Vinaigrette.

I’m a firm believer in making as much ahead as possible so that I can enjoy the party as much as my guests, so I had roasted the chickpeas and cauliflower for the salad and the tomatoes for the pasta dish before guests arrived. The heirloom cherry tomatoes I used deserved their own photoshoot.

The finished product. Delicious!

September celebrates the end of summer’s bounty and the beginning of autumn’s savory flavors, so I rounded out the meal with Ina Garten’s apple crisp, served warm with vanilla ice cream.

Early fall apples used in the apple crisp

For the table setting, I wanted the view of our property to take a starring role, so I did a simple neutral setting that hinted at the fall splendor to come. Simple white plates, copper chargers and natural woven grass mats were paired with glass tumblers and my husband’s grandmother’s early 20th century silver.

For the centerpiece, I used a wooden dough bowl filled with green and white pumpkins and squash, grapevine balls and a few hydrangea blossoms. (If you look closely, you can see a small vintage wooden bird in the middle as a nod to our book.) White napkins with raffia ties and lots of white votives completed the simple, neutral scene that just hints at fall.

It was a wonderful evening. And even though it was a longer drive than they usually have, the group stayed until later than usual — a combination of a great book to discuss, the pleasure of each other’s company, and wonderful food and setting to invite them to linger. Can’t wait’ til they return next year!

So moved

Nervous dogs and boxes as far as the eye can see.

After a chaotic last-minute packing extravaganza, a sweltering series of 90-plus degree moving days, and several weeks of nervous dogs, boxes as far as the eyes can see, constant searches for things we use every day, and deep physical exhaustion, we have moved all our worldly possessions to one of three locations: while our two daughters’ things are mostly now in a loft studio apartment in the Chicago Loop and an adorable brownstone in Chicago’s Logan Square neighborhood, the vast–and I mean vast–majority of our stuff found its way to a four-bedroom house on 1.3 acres at the edge of our metropolitan area, about a half hour drive from our old house.

The rewards of the land have already been many. Fresh peaches picked from our very own peach tree, a bouquet of hydrangeas on our new kitchen table (the first kitchen table we have ever owned), nightly visits from a family of deer, and hummingbirds finding our feeders within a day or two of my husband filling them.

The view from our deck
The view that makes it all worthwhile

The dogs have now settled in (despite scary thunderstorms and the mysterious disappearance of our daughters returning to college). They are still sticking close, but they are no longer pacing and panting constantly.

As for my husband and me, despite all the work, the view of our backyard makes us feel like we are on vacation. 🐕🌳

Different house, same home.

Lighten up!

We got possession of the house! Now it’s a race to get a few things done before we move in. First up, painting the built-in bookshelves in the great room.

Photo of the great room from the listing.

The previous owners’ style was pretty, with distressed black painted built-ins around the fireplace. But I knew I wanted something lighter and breezier in this room, where the view of our property is the star of the show with the wall of windows.

The walls in this room were already a pretty neutral, so I decided to paint the built-ins a nice clean white to match the window and baseboard trim.

I’m so pleased with the transformation. the room already feels bigger.

You can see my husband’s speakers here; while my priority is design and mood, his is electronics and sound! We’ll be buying a new television to go above that fireplace. I’ll post more once I get those shelves styled and the hubby gets his biggest-ever flatscreen. 📺

Sea Change for a New Season of Life

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.

— Leo Tolstoy

Change is good for the soul, or so I tell myself. Kids leaving the nest, a change of jobs, a house move to a totally new neighborhood. These things can be stressful, but they can also be wondrous.

Let’s find out what happens when my husband and I make all of these changes at the same time, one day very soon.

We’ve sold our wonderful 75-year-old house of 19 years, and will soon leave the inner-ring suburb where we’ve lived most of our lives. We’re not moving far, but we’re taking on 1.3 acres, a stream, a small orchard and a huge vegetable garden, in a new community with a much newer house. Come along for the ride as we share our successes and challenges in the areas of gardening, decorating, cooking and celebrating, as well as thoughts on changes in other parts of our lives. 🍅